It'll be a year tip Friday since BlueLight and I had our first date. He has now got a job up here and will be moving in to my newly purchased house.

By far this is the most significant evolving relationship of my short life. It feels like the time is right to give it a go.

Sand? Well, he may well be trying out one for himself. I've encouraged him to give it a go. As much as it is what he protests against, it is what he needs. I think he is realising that. I hope I played my little part in getting him to that point even if I couldn't take him all the way.

So far it seems like things are working out for the best (as long as I disregard my father's reaction to my penchant)